DOLLHOUSE Guest FAQ
A guide for our curious, creative, and kink-curious newbies and regulars alike.
What kind of event is this?
DOLLHOUSE is an immersive body-positive, demisexual- and kink-friendly party experience—designed for those who love art, fashion, performance, and sensory play. This is not a sex party. It’s a curated gathering of community, play, performance, and expression.
Is this a sex or dungeon play party event?
Nope. DOLLHOUSE is not a sex party, open play party, or dungeon. There is no public play area and no sex on site.
We are a performance- and community-based event with immersive visuals, burlesque, kink demos, and self-expression—all curated in a safe, consent-forward container. Our kink elements are strictly demo-based, led by vetted professionals for those who are curious, with clear boundaries and opt-in engagement only.
Note: Solesuite- Is a reserved VIP private party and is NOT available to the general public.
Is this 18+ or 21+?
The event is 18+.
There is a 21+ DOLL Lounge with tasty sips included free with VIP & Supporter tier ticket types. Please bring your ID if you’d like to enjoy that space—we do card at the door. Outside of that, all DOLLs 18 and up are welcome.
Can I smoke weed or vape?
Not inside the venue. You’re welcome to step outside to smoke—our lovely security team will show you the designated spot just down the block, within eyesight and very close by.
We’ll also have weed-infused cupcakes available (21+) and non-medicated versions for everyone to enjoy.
Is nudity allowed?
While you may see artistic nudity on stage in our performances. Please read the following.
No full nudity. Nipples are welcome, but all guests must keep genitals covered—no matter your gender.
We recommend aiming for rave, lingerie, or swimsuit-level coverage. Be as expressive as you’d like within those bounds. Think “smooth like Barbie or Ken” when it comes to what’s visible.
Is there a dungeon or public play area?
No. While you may see people engaging in short, 5–10 minute paid demos throughout the night, this is a curated demo-based event, not a dungeon party.
There will be kink scenes and performances led by vetted Doms in designated areas—offered for those who are curious and seeking light, guided exploration. You’re welcome to:
- Request a one-on-one demo with a Dom
- Be guided through a scene with a partner or new friend under a Dom’s supervision
There will be no public free play and no sex on site. All kink engagement is opt-in, structured, paid ($20 for a 10-minute demo or other negotiated rate), and consent-led.
Will the address be listed online?
No. The venue address will be emailed to ticket holders one day before the event for community safety.
Please check your email and reach out if you haven’t received it by the evening prior. Sometimes we send a false address to protect our guests. Please make sure the address is listed as the final address and sent direct from my email and confirmed at dungeondouleur.com & Restlessnights.com.
What is the vibe?
Think avant-garde doll fantasy meets queer underground rave. Expect burlesque, striptease, fashion looks, kink demos, and dreamy installations. We center safety, inclusivity, and self-expression—with room for both the shy and the showy to shine.
What does “Doll” theme mean?
The “Doll” theme is entirely your own interpretation. You can come as a Victorian porcelain doll, a ragdoll, “Barbie at the beach,” a haunted toy, or just dolled up in something that makes you feel powerful or playful. We ask that all guests show up with respectful intention, no matter how glam, grungy, sweet, spooky, or strange.
Is this a “Dollification” kink party?
No. While the word “doll” may resonate with those who enjoy dollification kink, DOLLHOUSE is not a dedicated kink event centered on that dynamic.
That said, if dollification is part of your play, you’re absolutely welcome to attend and bring that energy into your look, your presence, or your experience. We invite you to come dressed in whatever “doll” means to you—whether that’s vintage, glamorous, spooky, genderless, hyper-femme, or fully stylized fantasy.
Just know that this isn’t a space designed for explicit fetish scenes. DOLLHOUSE is a public, inclusive, themed event with curated performances and opt-in kink demos led by vetted professionals. Private play is not permitted, but personal expression is deeply welcomed.
How does consent work at DOLLHOUSE?
At DOLLHOUSE, consent isn’t just a rule—it’s the foundation of everything we do. Enthusiastic consent means that all interactions—verbal, physical, or energetic—are mutual, clearly welcomed, and rooted in respect.
Here’s what that looks like:
YES means yes
Only a clear, excited “yes” counts as consent. That means both people actively want what’s happening—not just going along with it.
“No” always means no.
That includes:
- “Maybe”
- Silence
- Uncertainty
- Hesitation
None of those are consent. If you’re not sure, don’t proceed.
Touch is never assumed.
Always ask before touching anyone, even if it feels casual—like a hug or a hand on the shoulder. Assume everyone has boundaries until they tell you otherwise.
Compliments should feel safe, not sexual.
Admire the artistry, don’t objectify the person. If in doubt, keep it kind and simple. Think: “You look incredible” instead of “You’re so hot.”
No hovering, following, or weird vibes.
If someone disengages, respect that. If your presence makes someone uncomfortable, move on. Lurking behavior is not tolerated.
Ask questions.
If you’re unsure how to approach someone or interact respectfully, just ask. Curiosity is welcome here—assumption is not.
Need support?
Our staff and security are trained to help. If something feels off or you need backup, please speak up—we’ve got you.
At DOLLHOUSE, we celebrate all kinds of expression, but only with consent and mutual respect. That’s what keeps this space safe, sexy, and magical for everyone.
Will I be safe if I’m trans, BIPOC, disabled, or Neurospicy?
DOLLHOUSE is designed to be a welcoming, body-positive space where all guests—especially our trans, BIPOC, disabled, neurodivergent, queer, all ages, and plus-size community members—can feel seen and celebrated.
While we cannot guarantee anyone’s safety in all circumstances, we take proactive steps to foster an inclusive, respectful environment. This includes working with a diverse team of collaborators, maintaining a visible and briefed security presence, and clearly communicating consent expectations.
Any reports of harm, bigotry, or boundary violations are taken seriously and addressed promptly by staff.
This is a party rooted in care, community, and mutual respect—not perfection, but accountability and action.
This venue is ADA accessible. 🙂
Still Have Questions? Get In Touch!
We welcome curiosity. If you’re unsure about anything—whether it’s about the vibe, dress code, accessibility, or kink—we’re happy to clarify. No question is too small. Just reach out via email or Instagram.