SLICK  FAQ

If Cruella de Vil, Miranda Priestly, and the Queen of England threw a BDSM party in 1980s Berlin, expect the unexpected.

The fashion show is guest participation. Sign up at the front desk upon entry, if your look can slay our esteemed judging panel. Get judged by Chromegirl, Mistress Cyan, Shane Izykowski, Queen Mary, and Mastress Sno. Only 9 guests will be selected to compete, but everyone may sign up. Latex looks will have priority. There is a prize for the winner.

Make them stare. You are the runway.

NOTE: The contest starts at 11:30pm when doors close for the rest of the evening. All guests must be inside, and signed up before the show starts.

Cheers darlings!

  Imagine a subterranean ballroom, candlelight, chandliers, crystal, powdered wigs, fans, painted lips, lace, latex, someone moans deliciously, nubile forms brushed with gold walk by. 

Wrong question. Dress code? We don’t have a dress code, we have dress goals. If you are’nt feeling runway ready, don’t bother coming. 

Short version:
Ask first. Respect no. Negotiate clearly. Use safewords. No photos without consent. No harassment. Follow staff directions. Violations will result in removal.

Full rules (All Guests must read):

1. Consent is explicit and verbal. Ask before any touch, play, or close observation. The Enthusiastic “Yes” must be loud and proud. Silence or body language is not consent.

2. Safewords are Green, Yellow, Red. Red ends all activity immediately. Yellow means slow down, check in, adjust. Everyone honors safewords without debate.

3. Negotiate before play. Confirm limits, medical issues, marks, nudity or exposure, who may watch, and aftercare needs. Confirm what is off limits. All guests must fill out a negotiation sheet and get it approved by the DM before playing, no exceptions. A good Dom can make this part of the foreplay…

4. Respect a “no” the first time. No pressure, no persuasion, no chasing after a refusal.

5. Spectator etiquette. We love a good voyeur, but not everyone does. Here’s what we consider respectful. Give scenes space (6ft), no staring, no touching yourself (without DM approved negotiation sheet), do not interrupt, do not touch people or toys, and do not talk to players mid-scene unless invited.

6. Phones and cameras. We will store your device in a sealed envelope at entry. We have a professional photographer available to capture those special kinky moments. No photos or video without prior, explicit consent from everyone visible and from staff. Use designated photo areas only. You are allowed to check your phone at any time during the event, just ask our door staff. But please honor our rules, you will be surprised at how much easier it is to connect with your community. Please arrange to exchange contact info at the end of the evening not during the event, if they really want your number they will make the effort.

NOTE: If you want to photograph your sub, it must be agreed upon prior to the scene in writing on your signed negotiation sheet.

7. Respect identity and titles. Use stated names, pronouns, and honorifics. If unsure, ask politely. SLICK is a QUEER, body positive, and diversity affirming safe space. If you have issue with this, don’t come. We welcome all sizes, shapes, genders, and expressions- LGBTQIIA+, BIPOC, those with disabilities, and the neurodiverse. Bring an open mind and a positive vibe, this is conscious kink-necction and it starts with your open heart in the community we build together!

8. Play zones and equipment. Use only in designated areas. Inspect gear before use. Wipe down and return equipment as found. Ask a DM if you need help. There is one shower if needed, ask for Dm approval prior to starting a messy scene so we can provide you with instructions and bring your own towel. Due to Health Department – We cannot accomodate potty play at SLICK. We apologise for any inconvenience. 

9. Prohibited or restricted activities. Some activities require DM approval or are venue-restricted. Ask a DM before fire, sharps, electrical, breath, or edge play. No projectiles or unsheathed steel wandering the floor. Males -No walking around fully nude with genitalia exposed, models exempt, nipples are allowed, if you are nude please be polite and clean furniture. No one likes a snail trail on their couture. Please keep nudity confined to the smaller dungeon rooms, not the larger area in front of the stage. 

10. Substance use. No play while visibly impaired. Staff may pause or end a scene if safety is in question. While we do not condone intoxication, we understand mistakes happen. We follow a harm reduction model, if someone needs help or is having a hard time please seek staff support we have a trained trip sitter on site and many on site have medical training. Our greatest concern is your health and safety. 

11. Health and hygiene. Bring your own barriers and toy covers if needed. Do not share items that contact bodily fluids without proper barriers and disinfection. Cover open cuts. If you feel unwell, stop and tell a DM.

12. Aftercare. Plan it during negotiation. All scenes must have some form of aftercare, for Dom and sub. Dealers choice. Use designated quiet areas if needed. Be mindful of space and others’ privacy.

13. Harassment and discrimination. Zero tolerance for stalking, non-consensual touch, hate speech, or targeted harassment. Report concerns to a DM or staff immediately.

14. Confidentiality. Protect community privacy. Do not out attendees or share personal details without permission.

15. Dress code. Latex. High fashion. Couture fetish. Fantasy feral. If you would not wear it on the Queen’s runway, upgrade it before entry. We are very strict about dresscode, it doen’t have to be expensive, but it does need to be amazing.

16. Closed container policy. No re-entry after doors seal. Doors seal at 11:30 PM. This means no one is allowed into the venue after 11:30pm. If you show up at 11:31pm, you missed the whole night. Sorry darling. This is for safety reasons, you would’nt want to be getting fingered by you lover when your ex walks in, respect the container and please do you best to stay until the end of the event at 2am, unless absolutely necessary. 

17. Staff authority. Follow DM and staff instructions. Staff decisions are final. Violations may result in removal without refund.

18. Accessibility and accommodations. Ask staff for help with access, sensory needs, or other accommodations. We will do our best to support you.

19. What kind of play is allowed at SLICK? Local law and venue policy. All play must comply with venue rules and applicable laws. When in doubt, ask a DM before you start. We are pretty open minded, and we want you to have fun, and do something exciting at SLICK, don’t belive us? Just ask, you may be surprised by what we allow. But if you don’t ask, and we catch you, it’s simple you’ll get banned, permanently with no warning. We appreciate open honest communication, and that includes with our staff. We don’t like boundry pushing, lying, or predatory behaviors. It’s not sexy. 

20. By entering, you agree to these rules and to prioritize consent, safety, and respect for everyone present. By purchasing a ticket, you have purchased a two month trial membership pass to all Dungeon Douleur events, you are now a guest member. You are entitled to early access, discounts, and perks until January 2026. Please sign up by emailing us at info@dungeondouleur.com. Simply send us a picture of your ticket to claim and access your membership. 

RECAP – ENTHUSASTIC CONSENT MEANS…. 

YES means yes
Only a clear, excited “yes” counts as consent. That means both people actively want what’s happening—not just going along with it.

“No” always means no.
That includes:

• “Maybe” 
• Silence 
• Uncertainty 
• Hesitation
  None of those are consent. If you’re not sure, don’t proceed.
  

Touch is never assumed.
Always ask before touching anyone, even if it feels casual—like a hug or a hand on the shoulder. Assume everyone has boundaries until they tell you otherwise.

Compliments should feel safe, not sexual.
Admire the artistry, don’t objectify the person. If in doubt, keep it kind and simple. Think: “You look incredible” instead of “You’re so hot.”

No hovering, following, or weird vibes.
If someone disengages, respect that. If your presence makes someone uncomfortable, move on. Lurking behavior is not tolerated.

Ask questions.
If you’re unsure how to approach someone or interact respectfully, just ask. Curiosity is welcome here—assumption is not.

Need support?
Our staff and security are trained to help. If something feels off or you need backup, please speak up—we’ve got you.

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SLICK is designed to be a welcoming, body-positive space where all guests—especially our trans, BIPOC, disabled, neurodivergent, queer, all ages, and plus-size community members—can feel seen and celebrated.

While we cannot guarantee anyone’s safety in all circumstances, we take proactive steps to foster an inclusive, respectful environment. This includes working with a diverse team of collaborators, maintaining a visible and briefed security presence, and clearly communicating consent expectations.

Any reports of harm, bigotry, or boundary violations are taken seriously and addressed promptly by staff.

This is a private membership event : For many of you this will be your first Dungeon Douleur Party. Our members have worked hard to create a safe experience rooted in care, community, and mutual respect—not perfection, but accountability and action.

This venue is ADA accessible, but you will need to enter through our back gate entrance our door staff can assist you. 🙂